Matt can be considered the patron of men and women struggling with alcoholism.
Matt was born in Dublin, where his father worked on the docks and
had a difficult time supporting his family. After a few years of
schooling, Matt obtained work as a messenger for some liquor merchants;
there he began to drink excessively. For 15 years—until he was almost
30—Matt was an active alcoholic.
One day he decided to take "the
pledge" for three months, make a general confession and begin to attend
daily Mass. There is evidence that Matt’s first seven years after taking
the pledge were especially difficult. Avoiding his former drinking
places was hard. He began to pray as intensely as he used to drink. He
also tried to pay back people from whom he had borrowed or stolen money
while he was drinking.
Most of his life Matt worked as a
builder’s laborer. He joined the Secular Franciscan Order and began a
life of strict penance; he abstained from meat nine months a year. Matt
spent hours every night avidly reading Scripture and the lives of the
saints. He prayed the rosary conscientiously. Though his job did not
make him rich, Matt contributed generously to the missions.
After
1923 his health failed, and Matt was forced to quit work. He died on
his way to church on Trinity Sunday. Fifty years later Pope Paul VI gave
him the title venerable.
Comment: In looking at the life of Matt Talbot, we may easily
focus on the later years when he had stopped drinking for some time and
was leading a penitential life. Only alcoholic men and women who have
stopped drinking can fully appreciate how difficult the earliest years
of sobriety were for Matt.
He had to take one day at a time. So do the rest of us.
Quote: On an otherwise blank page in one of Matt’s
books, the following is written: "God console thee and make thee a
saint. To arrive at the perfection of humility four things are
necessary: to despise the world, to despise no one, to despise self, to
despise being despised by others." |
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